TAKING A BREAK FROM HANGING ART

TAKING A BREAK FROM HANGING ART
We are all examples of Art, look around as there are even more examples of Art. Every aspect of this earth is one form or another is Art. To start with (for those who can), your eyes please view into a mirror.
Beautiful, as on you they are 2 points of you to view Art...
Also yet easy to recognize, trees, clouds, flowers, mountains, water/weather aspects and the sky, the stars of the night are more Art.
The contours of the woman I most Loved back, my late Wife
Joyce was my favorite Art.
Art is everywhere, so look around if you get tired and need a break from hanging Art!
https://youtu.be/Qf193xgHt4U
Written by Richard Abbenbroek 
http://bayo-hunter.blogspot.ca/

BAD DAY TODAY!

BAD DAY TODAY!

Hey, did I tell you that today is our anniversary day?

Yet I am in a rage at people who lay guilt trips on me. Abuse me because I am a Christian and so I will turn the other cheek when they hurt me over and over. Sorry as I am just gripping to another Christians. Then some who pretend to be such need making up their meanness to fellow Christians. I wait for GOD to tell them, for as a mortal I will only exacerbate their rudeness.

Fear not, it is neither most of you or You!

For those who care I do, I thank you but the loneliness is hardest today.

As it would have been 22 years of marriage and 32 years of friendship.

AFTER OUR WEDDING DAY…

https://youtu.be/ABYJo53mHHQ

To Have and To Hold from This Day Forward.

Today Joyce and I are celebrating 22 years of marriage. I could write my usual post or Facebook update on how amazing she is and how undeserving I am and how I'm glad we get to go on this journey together and that I hope we get more years on our journey. I believe in those things and can easily say them and mean them. Though as smoke rises and ashes to ashes I am alone, still asking but why?

FOR BETTER OR WORSE

In a bigger sense, 32 years later we would have had only each other to have and each other to hold. There is no one else and we loved that. We were still each other's Best Friend. What we started in only having and holding each other continued. We were always looking forward to more days, weeks, months, years and decades of only holding one another.

In the last 5 years of her life, we didn't just get the pleasure of having and holding each other as this was a blessing. There was little else in this life given to us by GOD for us to cling to and yet WE still had each other.

FOR RICHER OR POORER

We've had remarkable "better" times. I know a lot of married people who seem to Love each other very much. Good on them. I can't think of anyone who has more fun being married than me and Joyce. It's was a trip. The "better" times were just grand, for when the bills were paid, and the basement isn't flooding, and the kids are getting good grades/graduated and there is not any major teenage or adult like rebellions. When times are good, we sung together and enjoy each other's company. We forgive each other quickly and enjoy each other’s idiosyncrasies. We made time to hang out and talk, to get alone and to also spend time around others. But anyone can endure the better times for what came next made the worse times now seem even better. Especially during the last 5 of our 32 & 22 years the "worse" times were really bad. Some things we've been through are still too painful to describe in a post like this, so I won't.

IN SICKNESS AND HEALTH

Of course, we had times of health and times of "sickness." What we learned along the way is that we got to endure it together and help each other in the sick times. I've told Joyce many times, that as odd as it seems I have found these times of her greatest fear and deepest sickness, namely right before she went home to be of great growth for me. She was helpless and needy, and I got to serve her. I learned to take care of all our household duties except money which to the end she handled that. From Joyce I learned to have someone lean hard on me in times of incredible need and I enjoyed being there for her. I also learned to lean hard on GOD because I was forced to live beyond my means...which is what I should have been doing all along leaning on GOD!

TO LOVE AND CHERISH

We thanked GOD for those years of racy Love and the millions of Kisses and endless hours of playful teasing. That's a part of our Love for and cherishing of each other. We thank GOD for the years of settling in to a deep and abiding Love through huge mistakes, hurtful arguments, angry comments, at times putting off forgiving each other, apathetic stretches, and lulls between moments of forgiveness and kissing each other like we really meant it and like we both didn’t have anything better to do.

UNTIL DEATH DO US PART

We had 32 years together that have gone by in a blink of an eye. Again, I will tell you of how we traveled life’s roads and have been there, done that, made it through moments of pee your pants giggles, struggle and strife. Yet my life on this earth was made better with Joyce and now I must live another day and night alone. I struggle to not join my ashes with hers as without her, I am sorry but for me now this is not life, though I am glad also, that Joyce suffers no more…

https://youtu.be/o8pQLtHTPaI

Hey, did I tell you that today is our anniversary day?

https://youtu.be/KodNFsP6r88

Written by Sir Richard –

For his Lady Joyce.

http://bayo-hunter.blogspot.ca/

PHOTOS: by Sir Richard

MUSIC:

K.D Lang - Constant Craving

Brandi Carlile – The Story

Johnny Cash – Till we meet again

JUST IN TIME.

JUST IN TIME.

SO WHAT TIME IS IT?
TIME: 
 https://youtu.be/abw8W05tzKY
My Time, your Time, lost Time, last Time.
Inevitably we are all stalked by Time,
as it is said; Time waits for no one.
Hey, can you spare some Time?
GOD will be with you till the end of Time!
So what Time is it now??
Forgotten Time, remember that Time, to travel in Time?
Have you run out of Time, or having a Good Time - Bad Time?
https://youtu.be/lsZG7n7ries
In Time, we will all be before GOD!
Time of the Season:
https://youtu.be/bzxOf7kPqmU
Miss my Time with Joyce as it was far too short of a Time.
That was the Best of Times, that was not the worst of Times...
Time heals all, well I wrote this on July 9th 2014
and I am afraid Time does NOT!
So Once More, What Time Is It?
Written Just In Time by,
Sir Richard…
http://bayo-hunter.blogspot.com/

JOYCE I WAS MADE FOR YOU

JOYCE I WAS MADE FOR YOU

https://youtu.be/o8pQLtHTPaI

WITHOUT JOYCE

They say that behind every man there’s a Great Woman! In my life this is so true, as what I became would never have happened without Joyce. Sure, many other dynamics and people came into my life to make me who I am today…

Though Without Joyce:

“The Fires of Hell” could well be licking at your toes, she always reminded me. Joyce was my center as I started my quest to find the Comfort and Love that is JESUS CHRIST.

Without Joyce:

I would never have learned how to make pictures of a rabbit and tank on a Dot Matrix Machine and work with computers. She gave me the courage to go to night school, so I could make it into the Information Technology Department at the Calgary Public Library.

Without Joyce:

I wouldn’t have been able to take that little bit of computer knowledge and use it to help build a Computer Lab at the High School in KwaZulu-Natal Province, Bhekulwandle South Africa.

Without Joyce:

I would never have had the ability to make nightly calls to over 408 Parents and assist them in the recovery of their Missing Children, through Child Find Alberta and Team Hope the National Center of Missing and Exploited Children.

Without Joyce:

I could never have gone to the Gulf of Mexico and assist in the recovery of 70 Hurricane Katrina ravaged homes.

Without Joyce:

I would never have had the simple joy of having a Family, extra Grandchildren and puppy dogs. She was My Best Friend, she loved me like No Other Human being and taught me to share this Love with many who needed it and even those who may not have deserved it. Which is something good, that GOD taught both Joyce and I.

But with Joyce:

I had Twenty-Eight years together that have gone by in a blink of an eye. We traveled life’s road and have been there and done that, made it through moments of pee your pants giggles, struggle and strife. Yet my life on this earth was made better With Joyce and now I must live another day and night alone.

Without my Lady Joyce: https://youtu.be/o8pQLtHTPaI

Written by her Stud Muffin and Husband Sir Richard... 
http://bayo-hunter.blogspot.com/

Song by Brandi Carlile - "The Story"

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY LADY JOYCE!

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY AND
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LADY JOYCE!
https://youtu.be/ABYJo53mHHQ
LOVE FROM YOUR HEART
Does Love from your heart, dissipate like chimney smoke?
Or is it rock hard like granite, lasting for all of our eternities...
Do you stop Loving someone that you once Loved or have lost?
I think not, you store it and bring it out like a photo album.
To view and at times even share but it is stored and never stops.
Can you Love more than one person,
or is your personality like that of a single railway track?
Never diverting only going one direction and never to be shared,
I think not.
Love, is like the spokes of a bicycle wheel.
Racing out to as many as one needs to move on and always centered back.
To the Love from your heart...
Written by,
Sir Richard...
https://youtu.be/ASCZ5KHX0Rw
With all the Love that heaven where you are will allow! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my Lady Joyce from her Sir Richard.
P.S. My wife Joyce's Birthday is today as you know. 

As you may also know I never got over her loss.
As time does not heal all it only makes your loving self tougher. This is why I wonder I guess for those who have been offended by me.
As I feel horrible as I feel very abandoned! So, as I held you all in high esteem, this is why, your abandonment hurt so.
Look at it from my P.O.V. I got Cancer and lost friends, heart disease and more friends, Joyce past and because I was in morning and at the same time ill.
I feel that I was abandoned for not being happy and some even had the coldness to tell me this? Forgive me people, but I am working on it hard for myself and for you I have forgiven, yet at times I wonder what lives in that chest of yours? 

Does this explain me at all?
https://youtu.be/5nG1GRGDfxE

HAPPY CANADA DAY - EH!

HAPPY CANADA DAY - EH!
For the 2-4 recycling Canadians, eh: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_w2ShdvwfE
“Thank you my dear friends Happy Canada Day 2018!”
“Merci mes chers amis Jour heureux du Canada 2018!”
Are Canadians Polite? No! Here’s Why:
https://youtu.be/Jy1w6oEbFfw
HAPPY CANADA DAY
FROM,
SIR RICHARD…