FIRST CHOICE NEVER SECOND BEST
My late wife Joyce was my Best Friend, Love, Companion, Partner and Confidant.
Never did I think with Joyce I would have to resort to a back-up plan.
Joyce was always worth more than someone’s second choice.
reach a loss such as mine you can’t force yourself to stop caring for
someone but you can tell yourself that if you had to do it again that
you deserve better! Though the kicker is that you already had the best and you should never settle for second best.
Keep your standards and if you need to choose to be with someone.
Choose someone who will treat you with the same respect and
consideration you would treat them. You can’t expect to be someone
else’s priority if they are not yours.
Being second best or being
expected to have someone as your second best, unfairly takes away some
of your dignity. Being Loved for who you are and being their or your
priority should be an unbending principle. Remember your worth, be your
true self and know you are valuable to someone. Respect and true Love
should not come with a price to pay. Don't settle for less or be with
someone who doesn't defend your honour under any circumstance. Live a
deserving life and live bigger than a second choice, by having someone
who is your Best Friend, Love, Companion, Partner and Confidant.
They say that there is always someone somewhere who wishes to be with
you and to treat you like a treasure, so you should not be sad for those
who will not even take care of you.
Self-respect is the Greatest
Love we can give ourselves. I will only be in a relationship where I am
treated with respect and total Love, I know my true value. So in all, I
guess I can only settle for a first choice never second best…
By Sir Richard
Doomed to loneliness, until GOD calls me home!